Language of Love
If you are married and don’t know your wife’s love language you are navigating romance blindly. Study your wife and learn her love language so you can love her in the ways that she wants and needs! Then treat her to a date night where you satisfy each of the love languages! Guarateed winner.
Step By Step Process
Both you and your wife go online and take the “5 Love Languages” test at the same time. The Love Language™ Quiz (5lovelanguages.com)
Write down your partner’ top two love languages on a piece of paper and put the paper on your mirror. This will stand as a reminder to love your wife intentionally each day.
Treat your wife with each one of the love languages. Start with her least prominent language to her top love language. Example:
1. Words of affirmation: Have a written note of 10 things you adore about your wife.
2. Gifts: Surprise your wife with flowers, or candles, or chocolate.
3. Quality Time: Sit down with your wife and a cup of tea / coffee and ask her three questions: Biggest Fear? Biggest Regret? Biggest Dream?
4. Touch: Give your wife a 15 minutes foot massage
5. Acts of Service: while on your date actively complete a chore. Feel free to ask your wife what chores she most dreads. Examples are: do the dishes, fold the laundry, sweep the floor
