Do You Love Your Wife, or How She Makes You Feel?
By Jimmy Sliwa
- Do you still pursue her, or have you stopped now that the “chase” is over?
- Do you argue to find a solution, or just to prove you’re right?
- Do you do the dishes simply to bless her, or are you seeking a compliment?
- Do you try to understand her pain, or just want her to get over it so you can move on?
- Do you bring her flowers to surprise her, or to get sex in return?
- Do you stay faithful because of love, or because you’re afraid of getting caught?
- Do you speak highly of her in front of friends, or use her to get cheap laughs?
- Do you wait on her patiently or rush her along to the next thing?
- Do you go to work to provide for her needs, or do you work to fund your hobbies?
- Do you receive her perspective, or do you always have to get in the last word?
- Do you pray for her growth, or pray for her to change in ways that suit you?
- Do you make time for her because she matters, or because you are avoiding guilt?
- Do you protect her heart, or just protect your image as a “good husband.”
- Do you apologize to make peace or just to end the argument?
- Do you forgive and move on or do you keep a score of wrongdoings for ammunition later?
