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50 Best Ways to Sweep Her Off Her Feet

By Jimmy Sliwa

She was totally surprised when I came home with fresh market flowers and cleaned out her car. It was small, it was thoughtful, and it totally swept her off her feet. 

To “sweep someone off their feet” is to cause someone to suddenly and intensely fall in love with you.

It often implies doing something so thoughtful or romantic that it leaves the other person feeling captivated. 

I’m willing to bet that if your wife agreed to marry you, there were times that you swept her off her feet, leaving her enamored by you.

Am I right? 

Think back, when was the last time you did somethings that totally captivated her.

Can you remember a time?

If you find yourself searching your memory like a cluttered, dusty attic, don’t feel bad. Most men can’t remember the last time they swept their wife off her feet either. 

Sadly, for most marriages, the feeling of being captivated is a distant memory. Overtime the flames of marriage can fizzle out. 

But…they don’t have too!

How to Sweep Her Off Her Feet

The key to sweeping your wife off her feet is to catch her by surprise.  

Creating out of the ordinary moments that make her feel special is the best way to sweep her off her feet.

And I have good news! It doesn’t always have to be some grand gesture. Small acts or thoughtful gestures can do as much good for your marriage as grand gestures.  

The old adage is true…it’s the thought that counts. 

Renowned marriage counselor, Dr. Gottman, even has a podcast titled “Small Things Often” that encourages couples to work on their marriage by doing seemingly small gestures that make a BIG impact. 

If you are like me and it’s been too long since you swept your wife off her feet, I’d like to offer some tips. 

Here are the 50 best ways to help you sweep her off her feet and keep the romance alive!”

50 Best Ways to Sweep Her Off Her Feet

1. Send Her a Playlist of Songs That Remind You of Her

  • Create a list of songs that are meaningful to your relationship or remind you of her, and send it with a heartfelt note.

2. Catch the Sunset or Sunrise

3. Leave a Love Note Somewhere Unexpected

  • Tuck a handwritten note in her purse, car, or even on the bathroom mirror. Short and sweet messages like, “Thinking of you” or “You make my day brighter,” can go a long way.

4. Create a Time Capsule of Your Relationship

  • Write letters to each other, collect small mementos, and put them in a box to open in the future.

5. Surprise Her with a Book of Your Love Story

  • Write down your love story from your perspective and present it to her as a gift.

6. Cook Her Favorite Meal

  • If you don’t know how, take the time to learn. The effort you put into mastering her favorite dish will show how much you care.

7. Write a Poem or Song Just for Her

  • Whether it’s funny, romantic, or heartfelt, express your feelings in a creative way that’s all your own.

8. Plan a Picnic at Her Favorite Park

9. Surprise Her with Breakfast in Bed

  • Wake up early, prepare her favorite breakfast items, and serve it with a smile. Include a fresh flower to add an extra touch.

10. Take a Dance Class Together

  • Sign up for a dance class—whether it’s ballroom, salsa, or something else entirely, it’s a fun and intimate way to connect.

11. Plan a Scavenger Hunt with Special Clues

  • Create a personalized scavenger hunt that leads her to places meaningful to your relationship or around the house for a fun adventure.

12. Surprise Her with Tickets to Her Favorite Show or Concert

  • Score tickets to a concert, play, or event she loves. Let her know how excited you are to share the experience with her.

13. Pamper Her with a Spa Day at Home

  • Set up a spa experience with candles, soothing music, and a bubble bath. Offer to give her a massage to complete the relaxation.

14. Create a Photo Album of Your Best Moments Together

  • Print out photos and put together a scrapbook or photo album. Include little notes about why each moment is special.

15. Take Her Stargazing

  • Find a quiet spot away from city lights, bring a blanket, and enjoy an evening under the stars. Share your dreams and wishes with each other.

16. Surprise Her with a “Just Because” Gift

  • Pick up something small she’s been eyeing or a token that represents an inside joke or shared memory.

17. Learn Something New Together

  • Take up a new hobby or skill together, like pottery, painting, or even learning a new language. Shared experiences create lasting memories.

18. Go on a Spontaneous Adventure

  • Get in the car, pick a direction, and just drive. Discover new places together with no set agenda.

19. Rent a Boat or Kayak and Spend a Day on the Water

  • If she loves the outdoors, plan a day on a nearby lake or river. Pack a picnic and enjoy a day floating along the water.

20. Take Her Out Dancing, Just the Two of You

  • Clear a space in the living room, put on some romantic music, and have a private dance party. Make it an unexpected, fun surprise.

21. Build a Cozy Blanket Fort and Watch Movies All Night

  • Unleash your inner child and build a blanket fort at home. Load up on popcorn and watch her favorite movies all night.

22. Write 50 Things You Love About Her

  • Get creative with it! Use sticky notes to fill a wall or create a booklet listing all the little things that make her special.

23. Bring Home Her Favorite Dessert

  • Whether it’s a slice of cake from the bakery she loves or a pint of ice cream, surprise her with a sweet treat after a long day.

24. Plan a Themed Date Night at Home

  • Choose a theme (like Parisian or beach party) and set up the evening around that theme, including food, decorations, and music.

25. Create a Personalized Crossword Puzzle

  • Include clues and answers that are unique to your relationship—places you’ve been, favorite songs, inside jokes.

26. Do One of Her Least Favorite Chores Without Being Asked

  • Show your love through actions by taking on a task she dislikes, like doing the laundry or taking out the trash.

27. Recreate Your First Date

  • Take her back to where it all began. Order the same meal, visit the same spots, and reminisce about how far you’ve come together.

28. Get Dressed Up and Have a Fancy Night In

  • Turn a regular night in into something special by dressing up, lighting candles, and cooking a three-course meal.

29. Plant a Garden Together

  • Choose flowers or herbs to plant together, and watch your garden (and relationship) grow over time.

30. Plan a Surprise Getaway

  • It doesn’t have to be extravagant—a weekend trip to a cozy bed-and-breakfast or a spontaneous day trip will do the trick. The key is to keep it a surprise!

31. Surprise Her with a Dance in the Kitchen

  • While cooking or cleaning, grab her hand and start dancing to a slow song. It’s an intimate, spontaneous way to make her smile.

32. Rent a Cabin and Have a Cozy Weekend Getaway

  • Get away from it all and spend a weekend in a cabin with no distractions, just each other’s company.

33. Plan a Bookstore Date

  • Spend the day browsing books, grabbing coffee, and picking out a new read for each other.

34. Make a Dream Board Together

  • Gather magazines, pictures, and quotes that inspire you both. Talk about your dreams and build a vision board as a couple.

35. Give Her a Compliment She’s Never Heard Before

  • Go beyond the usual and find something unique to appreciate about her, like the way she lights up when talking about something she loves.

36. Bring Her Flowers for No Reason

  • A bouquet of her favorite flowers, just because, will show her she’s on your mind.

37. Create a Bucket List Together

  • Sit down and brainstorm all the things you want to do as a couple. From travel destinations to fun experiences, it’s a great way to dream big together.

38. Make a DIY Craft Together

  • Try painting, making pottery, or even a fun seasonal craft. It’s a creative way to bond and spend quality time together.

39. Take a Road Trip to a New Town

  • Pick a town or city you’ve never visited, plan a day trip, and explore together.

40. Write Her a Love Letter

  • Go old-school and put pen to paper. Pour your heart out and tell her exactly what she means to you.

41. Send Her a Sweet Text in the Middle of the Day

42. Have a Wine and Cheese Night at Home

  • Select a variety of cheeses, pick out a few bottles of wine, and have a tasting night right at home.

43. Play a Board Game and Get Competitive

  • Pick her favorite board game or card game, grab some snacks, and have a fun, competitive night in.

44. Buy Her a Beautiful Piece of Jewelry “Just Because”

  • It doesn’t have to be expensive—just something that makes her feel cherished.

45. Volunteer Together

  • Spend a day giving back together, whether it’s at a local shelter or helping a community project. Doing good together is a powerful way to bond.

46. Rent a Convertible for the Day and Go for a Drive

  • Take a ride along a scenic route with the top down, wind in your hair, and a great playlist.

47. Host a Candlelit Dinner

 

48. Set Up a Tent in the Backyard and Camp Under the Stars

  • If you can’t get away, set up camp right at home and make s’mores under the stars.

49. Create a Surprise Date Jar

  • Fill a jar with date ideas on slips of paper—each time you’re stumped for something

50. Walk the Neighborhood

  • Walking and talking is a great way to get on the same rhythm in marriage. Take your gal out for a stroll around the neighborhood and talk about your dream home together.